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We are expecting a Great Crowd from RSVPs and a lot of out of town travelers too. You still have time to book a room at the hotel and Join Us too!! We also have a club member that doesn’t drink and has agreed to provide a sober ride from the hotel to the club and back so you can drink and celebrate with no worries about driving!!! All we ask is that everyone please tip him $5.00 per couple each way to help with his gas and let him know we appreicate him taking his time to help us out and keep everyone safe and no DUI worries!! This is much better than a cab ride and no long waits on a taxi this time of year either!! He will be driving a van parked near the entrance to the hotel if you want a ride beginning at about 8:30 for those that want to arrive at opening time. He will make trips back and forth as long as there are people needing a ride. If he is not there when you get ready to leave please call our cell at (843) 997-3000 and let us know.

Hope you will join us! This is our biggest party of the year and the one Party You Don’t Want to Miss Out on the Fun and all the Sexy Couples and a few Singles too!

Our Long Time Friends, Hugh & Judy, from Playcate have also given us 2 Free Playcate Friday Night Convention Party Passes ($100.00 value each) to give away at our NYE Party! Playcate Convention is a complete Hotel Takeover Event Held in Myrtle Beach once a year from February 29 to March 4 that draws couples from all over the US. C Friends host their Wed Night party for the early bird arrivals and they always have a great crowd the day before the convention officially starts too! We always attend their convention on Friday night too and will join you there. For more info and convention details check out www.playcate.com. Don’t miss your chance to win a free Playcate Convention Party!

Come Ring In The New Year on Saturday December 31st in Myrtle Beach!

Nice Upscale Oceanfront Hotel – Rooms Just $35.00 a Night!!

Don’t Miss The Party Of The Year!!

The Club Opens at 9:00 pm and will be open very late night

until you are ready to go back to the hotel

Midnight Champagne Toast, Party Hats, Beads and Lots of Party Favors, Giveaways for NYE, Heavy Hors d’oeuvres

BYOB – All Mixers & Soft Drinks Provided,

Great Music & Dancing With All Your Sexy Friends

Dance Floor, Stage with Brass Pole & Erotic Shadow Box

Dance Cage and Dance Bar Too

Dress To Impress In Your Sexiest Party Attire Or Even Your Favorite Lingerie

(Formal Not Required or Expected)

If you Want a Room to stay near all your Sexy Friends and have a sober ride to the club and back

Call the Sandcastle Oceanfront Resort North, 1802 North Ocean Blvd, Myrtle Beach

(843) 448-7101 (They have quoted us some great rates of only $30.00 Night for an Oceanview Room, $35.00 for Oceanfront, $40.00 for Oceanfront Efficiency, and $45.00 for Oceanfront Suite)

Be Sure and Let Them Know You Are Attending the “C Friends New Years Party” to Receive This Price

and to be Placed Together on our floors. Locals if you have any problems booking a room let us know.

NYE Club Party

Member Couples $60.00

New Couples $75.00 (Includes Membership Fee)

Single Females $15.00

Select Few Single Males $80.00

Advance Reservations Needed for Single Males – Email if Interested

We Wish Everyone a Happy New Year and Hope you will Join Us to Celebrate and Bring in The New Year with All Your Sexy Friends at C Friends!!

C FRIENDS COUPLES CLUB IS LOCATED AT

1001 3RD AVE SOUTH

MYRTLE BEACH SC

Ask most female swingers whether endowment is important when looking for guys or couples to swing with and most will tell you that it is. Whether males want to face up to it or not, the facts of life are that most women go for those who are well endowed.

Big doesn’t mean huge however, and whilst there are indeed some swinger couples who seek out sex with groups of very well endowed men, most are simply looking for couple to couple relationships. The two guys in a typical swinger couple foursome are unlikely to be endowed with huge members but most ladies will prefer their guys to have at least seven inches when erect.

Small penises can be a source of sexual frustration for all women. You don’t need to be a swinger to experience disappointment with the size of a sexual partner’s manhood and this is not just because being well endowed looks so pleasing or feels so good to handle. A major reason for women preferring bigger guys is that they are more capable of stimulating the woman’s sexual pleasure centres located deep inside her vagina and on its walls. Orgasms achieved by stimulating these areas are often more pleasurable and prolonged than ones induced purely by the stimulation of her clitoris. Good endowment and as importantly, one with a thick girth, is required to apply pressure to these parts of the vagina.

However, long before penetration occurs, or in the case of swingers who reserve penetrative sex for own partner sex only; endowment does much to enhance the swinging experience for women. Simply, the sight of a well endowed guy is a turn on for many women and helps them to become sexually excited even before the foreplay commences. Then there is the feel of a large, thick organ in her small hand, followed perhaps by oral sex. This gradual build up of excitement makes it easier for women to achieve multiple orgasms as their bodies are in induced into a more receptive state over a longer period of time.

Whilst this is all good news for guys on the swing scene who are fortunate enough to be well endowed, it is obviously not such great news for the many whose sex drive is not matched by the size of their member. This is actually a very common situation indeed, so let’s quickly put it all into perspective. If you have less than six inches to offer, it certainly does not rule you out as a swinger and if you are an attractive guy with an attractive partner, you are probably going to have as much fun as most of the really big guys. The female swingers are wise enough to know that what might make the best sex isn’t necessarily going to make the best all round fun and swinging is just as much about having fun with lots of different people as it is about having sex with them.

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The authors are a liberated couple who promote uninhibited, liberated sexuality through articles about adult dating and swinger parties. Their swinger dating websites include Club Aphrodite which is one of the oldest adult dating and swinger parties clubs in the uk, having been founded in 1996

Although this article was written to help swingers and other liberated couples enjoy their sexual encounters, it contains information that will enhance any sexual relationship.

It is a fallacy to believe that a man’s erogenous zones are mainly confined to his penis. By understanding more about what turns a man on, your sexual experiences will be greatly enhanced. Liberated women often demonstrate their ignorance of where to find a man’s other erogenous zones by reaching out for his penis at very early stages of sexual encounters, rarely straying far from it throughout the experience.

Activating the other zones is best done when the man is relaxed. Proceeding in a gentle fashion, the stimulation of the other zones can promote intense feelings of pleasure that can rival the strength of the ones his penis. It is even possible to make a man achieve orgasm without touching his penis at all.

A man’s nipples are an important erogenous zone; sometimes on a par with those of a woman. Even though his nipples are flatter and smaller than those of a woman, they have a similar capacity for erotic stimulation and actually harden and rise when fondled.
The best way to start on the breast area is to use your whole hand to gently hold and brush over his breast. Then stimulate his nipples by massaging the immediate area around them with one of your fingers. Alternate this by squeezing the nipple between your fingers. Continue this action on one nipple for a while with differing intensities ranging from gentle to fairly strong pinching. Then move to his other breast and repeat the same kind of procedure there.
The area between the navel and the penis is an extremely erogenous zone for most men. Stick a finger into his navel and tickle it. Vary your movements between light tickling and heavier massaging. Also vary the speed of your movements. Tease him by following the grove right down to where the penis begins, lingering there for just a few seconds before working back up again to the navel.

For most men, the scrotum scrotum is probably the most sensitive erogenous zone. This can include the testicles but be sure to be gentle when fondling this particulary sensitive organ.
Start by holding the scrotum in your hand, providing massage by applying gentle gripping pressure alternating with partial release. Fondling the scrotum in this way generates sensations throughout the whole genital region. It also increases the blood circulation so that all of the genital organs are engorged.

Treat the testicles with extra care, providing gentle movements with your fingers. The level of pressure should range from a light tickling to a soft fingertip massage. Find the hidden part of his penis by gently probing behind his scrotal sack, by probing with your finger tips between the testicles and then massaging it. Vary the pressure here. You can safely be less gentle in this area and a sudden, stronger movement with your fingertips will promote intense pleasure sensations to his hidden penis root.

Stimulation of the man’s prostate region promotes intense pleasurable sensations. It is best stimulated by squeezing it between your fingers. Press down against the urethra or massage it up and down along the urethra. Alternating between gentle and less gentle pressure will usually promote slightly different sensations, increasing the man’s pleasure.

Pay attention to the area between the buttocks. This is another very sensitive area. By sliding your fingers up and down from where the cleft starts at the base of the spine to the opposite end between the legs, intense erotic stimulation can easily be achieved. Linger in the region deep inside the cleft that is nearest to his anus and tickle around it. By stretching each buttock to the side and opening the rectal area highly erotic sensations are generated.

By stimulating the anal region area in the you will spread waves of intense pleasure throughout the man’s whole body, sending ecstatic signals to the genitals and up his spine up to the base of his neck.

The best way to stimulate the rectal opening is by applying gentle circular movements with your fingertips. Carefully insert a finger into the anal opening and move it gently in and out. Add a little pressure but be careful to check that this is okay with your partner as people differ enormously with regards to how much insertion is pleasurable and at what stage it can become painful.

More tips for swingers and other sexually liberated people can be found on our swinger dating and swinger parties website

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Sexual addiction, as defined by psychologists, is a ‘progressive intimacy disorder characterized by compulsive sexual thoughts and acts.’ Some people consider swinging to be a form of sexual addiction but it is probably more accurate to say that amongst swingers there are some people who are so obsessed with swinging that they can fairly be described as being addicts.
Over many years of running a swingers club, I have come across both couples and singles who present certain traits and behavior patterns which might indicate to a psychologist that they were sexually addicted. The main indications of their addiction to sex can be summarized as follows:

1. They appear to be almost incapable of talking about anything other than subjects connected with their swinging activities. For example; the parties they have been to or the ones they have heard about and are considering. If you are a member of an online swinger or adult dating club, you will probably have come across such people dominating chat room discussions.
2. Their sex life appears to be their only life. Everything they do will be planned with swinging in mind. If they plan a holiday for example, they will check out whether there are any swinging clubs in the resorts being considered and only choose a resort that has a club.
3. They believe that they have somehow ‘earned’ a good sex life by being good at flirting, have perfected sexual techniques or are otherwise seen by others as desirable sexual partners.
4. They may frown upon safe sex practices, claiming that HIV / AIDS are most unlikely to be contracted via heterosexual intercourse etc.
5. Single male sex addicts often exhibit their addiction by compulsive behaviour with regards to attending parties or using premium rate chat lines. Like a compulsive gambler on a fruit machine, they will continue attending parties that disappoint and calling expensive chat lines that produce no actual contact, telling themselves that ‘next time will be better’.
Although nobody seems to know exactly what causes people to become addicted to sex, most experts agree that a process occurs with the addict’s brain sending out a message telling them that having illicit sex is necessary in much the same way as the brain tells you that you must eat when you are hungry. Eventually a pattern is established whereby the constant messages translate into a preoccupation with sex at the expense and exclusion of other interests. Compulsive sexual behaviour is then established and perpetuated despite any negative consequences and attempts to limit it.
Swingers who are addicted to sex derive a sense of euphoria from their activities that appears to be much greater than other people derive. Their sexual experiences are rarely about intimacy and their accounts of their sexual adventures can often sound strangely detached. They are actually using sexual activity to avoid facing up to unpleasant feelings or as a response to external stressors, which, in the case of swinger couples, often include marital relationships. This kind of behaviour is of course, very typical of how an alcoholic uses alcohol. It may also be significant that swingers who show signs of being sex addicts seem more likely to reveal that they were sexually abused as children. Of course there are dangers in drawing conclusions from what is inevitably a very small number of people who have felt able to share such intimate information with me.
Overall, it is probably fair to say that amongst swingers there are bound to be many who can be described as being sexually addicted. However, compared to many other forms of compulsive sexual activity, swinging provides a very positive outcome of sex addiction.

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The authors are a liberated couple who promote uninhibited, liberated sexuality through articles about adult dating and swinger parties. Their swinger dating websites include Club Aphrodite which is one of the oldest adult dating and swinger parties clubs in the uk, having been founded in 1996

The obvious time to remove pubic hair would seem to be following a bath or shower but in reality this is not a good time because the hair is unlikely to be sufficiently dry. Trimmers do not work well on wet pubic hair and you therefore need to do the cutting and trimming before you get wet; ideally in the dry atmosphere of the bedroom, rather than in the damp atmosphere of the bathroom.

Pubic hair removal can also be carried out by using a wet shaving razor. Men are probably more likely to use this method than women and may do so in the shower. But again, scissor work will usually be necessary to cut the hair down to a shavable length and this needs to be done in dry conditions. Razors, as well as their obvious dangers, can leave uncomfortable and unsightly razor burns on the delicate shin of the genital area.

Removal creams are a very popular method for removing pubic hair. They are probably the safest means of pubic hair removal and provide a pain free method to obtaining a hairless area of smooth skin. Creams are also reasonably cheap to buy. When considering the use of removal creams it should be borne in mind that a few people can get allergic reactions. Swingers would be wise to avoid using creams immediately before attending a swinger party because they nearly always carry a strong odour that takes a day or so to fade away!

Join any swinger club, attend a party or chat on-line to swingers and you will soon discover that in general the trend amongst them is to have completely shaved or highly trimmed pubic areas. The trend has grown to the point where hairy pubes are somewhat of a rarity at a swingers party! This is perhaps unsurprising when you realise that swinging is very much an exhibitionist and voyeur sexual activity.

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The swinger lifestyle is only right for people who are confident about the strength of their relationship and who are able to be completely open with their own partner. Without this foundation, swinging may at best be a short-lived adventure and at worst, turn out to be quite disastrous for the couple’s relationship.

The swinging lifestyle therefore demands much more of a couple than just being adventurous, It requires complete openness about each other’s sexual needs and opinions within a trusting and communicative relationship. Both partners should be clear about what they want from swinging, both as individuals and as a couple. They also need to be in agreement about these goals. It is important that they understand swinging as a means of strengthening their relationship and as a release from temptation to embark upon deceitful affairs that are so often brought about by the monogamous lifestyle.

People usually get started in swinging by joining an online swinger site and making contact with other swingers by sending messages or using adult chat-rooms. Those who do not have access to a computer or prefer not to use one, often join swinger clubs who offer an offline service where contact is made by post or telephone. Whatever way their introduction into swinging comes about, the couple will eventually face the moment when the fantasy becomes reality. It is at this point when many fall by the wayside. Those that have the courage to take the next step and actually start swinging often say that their main motivation was to spice to their relationship.

Couples might be motivated to become swingers for other reasons. Sometimes it boils down to just having strong exhibitionist or voyeur tendencies. It doesn’t have to be the same motivation for each partner. Quite frequently the desire to be watched may be much stronger in one partner with the desire to watch being the motivating factor for the other. It is also quite common for swinger couples not to share the same sexual orientation when it comes to their interests in swinging. The most common difference being between the female partner who wants bi-sexual pleasure with the other woman and the male partner for whom the thought of any physical contact with the other male is an anathema.

In any swinger club, party or other encounter between swingers there are usually only two rules to always be adhered to. These are that No Means No and that Everyone’s Boundaries Must Be Respected. However in addition to these universally accepted rules, couples who have thought things through properly and have the right kind of open, trusting relationship will also have agreed on their own rules. They will also be in tune with each others body language to the extent that any situation that makes one partner feel uncomfortable is communicated to the other. In addition, they will have probably have agreed on a set of signals designed to communicate discreetly whenever they need to. For example, in the early stages of an encounter with another swinger couple, one partner may feel that he or she wants to prevent things going any further and can use a pre-arranged signal to communicate this to his or her partner.

For couples to operate such systems successfully and to remain in tune with one another, their underlying relationship must be of the sort described in the preceding paragraphs. Without such a strong relationship and total understanding, swinging is likely to prove much less than the enjoyable experience that was fantasised.

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People often ask whether this or that swinger party venue is a good one or not. Having experienced parties at most venues all over the U.K., my answer to this question emphasises that it is not really a good venue that makes a good party but rather the people attending it.

In terms of size and facilities there are several really outstanding swinger party venues to be found but it doesn’t necessarily follow that every party at such venues is a good one. Conversely, a small, private house party with practically no special facilities can often provide a swinger party that really swings. It’s people who make parties – not places.

Assuming the venue is adequately suitable for hosting a swinger party, there are probably five main requirements for creating the kind of environment that will make a swinger party really swing.

1. The Majority of Guests Participate
   Probably the most common reason for swinger parties flopping is due to them having too many guests who do not participate. Sadly, the swing scene attracts many who are just curious about what goes on and who rarely, if ever actually do any swinging. These people may simply be voyeurs but they can also often be couples, led by males who vainly hope that they can persuade their partners into swinging by taking them to a party.
   Unfortunately, it only takes a few non-participating guests of this type, plus a few nervous – but otherwise genuine – newcomers, to bring about a party mood that stops it ever getting off the ground. Even, experienced, fully participating swingers can be quickly affected by this kind of atmosphere and will often leave prematurely, reducing the number of potential participants still further.
2. Plenty of People
   Although some very good swinger parties take place with very small numbers of guests, the odds are firmly stacked in favour of larger numbers of guests being more likely to provide the atmosphere, choice, and chemistry needed to ensure a party really swings. Small numbers in a small intimate setting may sometimes work well but small numbers in large, empty venues are usually a recipe for disaster.
3. Balance of sexes
   A very important requirement is that the guests attending are made up of reasonably equal numbers of males and females. How equal this has to be depends very much on some of the other factors, especially how big the party is. In a large party, any inequality is hidden quite easily. In a small party, even one spare male may stand out and be a source of disharmony for other guests.
4. Similar Values
   Although swinging might appear to be about purely physical relationships, it is no more likely that people whose value systems are very different will swing together than it is that any other form of bond will develop between them. Swingers do actually chat and socialise at great lengths before deciding to move on to the sexual side of things. During this stage of introduction, values will emerge and either consciously or subconsciously, will go a long way to determining whether a relationship ensues or not. It is important therefore for guests at a swinger party to comprise mainly of people who generally share the same value systems.
5. Balance of Age Groups
   No matter how different the swinging lifestyle might be from the monogamous lifestyle, human sexuality is remains the same when it comes to choosing sexual partners. People are usually attracted to other people who are in a broadly similar age group. This may vary by quite a few years from individual to individual and women are more likely to enjoy older partners than men. Nevertheless, a party where age groups differ enormously and some guests are totally unable to find people of their own age group, is unlikely to be a swinging success.

How to find Swinger Parties that Really Swing
Because people make parties, it is impossible to predict with certainty whether any one party is going to really swing or not. The answer is to go to as many as possible, accepting that some will be better than others, Join a swinger party club like Club Aphrodite to ensure the widest selection of parties possible.

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We live in a society that is very judgmental, with very strict boundaries that can be more or less conservatory and wrong. Any person that doesn’t respect the boundaries and tries to be different becomes a target of society’s attention. Swingers are people who, because of their beliefs and manifestations, don’t fit the regular profile society would want them to.

Many people have a wrong idea about swingers and just cannot understand the swinger lifestyle. Some people even think that the swingers are some kind of cult that does all sorts of rituals, like orgies. Of course this happens all the time when people don’t understand someone’s behavior and are afraid. They judge and sometimes they do it poorly. While some are so narrow minded that they can’t understand a lifestyle different than their own, there are others that don’t have anything against swingers, but don’t participate in sexual acts that don’t correspond to their beliefs. Swingers shouldn’t be judged harshly because they make uncommon decisions. They don’t do anything wrong and they are not a religious cult which tries to find new people and make them a part of their lifestyle. Now, more than ever (because we live in a modern world), we should be able to break away from the conservative model of the normal man and understand swingers.

The swinger lifestyle isn’t very different from any other people’s lifestyle. Swingers go to work, have a family, go out and do all the things considered “normal”, but from time to time they engage in sexual relationships other than their regular one, meaning they have sex with other persons than the one they are committed to. For this little fact they are considered abnormal, but why is trying to get pleasure and satisfaction out of life abnormal? A lot of people nowadays are frustrated because of their sex life. And this thing doesn’t just eat them from the inside, it becomes a problem for the people around that person, his or her whole lifestyle gets messed up. Even specialist say it: “a healthy sex life is very important”. This way people can be more relaxed and behave better when interacting with others. No one likes a grouchy or over the hill nervous person. Through their lifestyle, swingers have found a way to have a pleasing sex life without cheating and making room for jealousy or frustrations that can degenerate. This is why society treat’s them differently, because they exchange partners and when one is married it’s considered cheating. According to this lifestyle as long as you have the agreement of your partner, it’s not cheating. It’s called swinging.

Swingers have a lot of advantages because of their lifestyle, but there are also some disadvantages. As you know swingers exchange partners, but not in the purpose of finding another person that he or she feels better with abandoning his or her primary partner. The only purpose is feeling good and getting something that they miss in their everyday sex life. So swingers are not sexually frustrated people. It’s only normal to feel better and happier when you have a pleasing sex life. During sexual intercourse, the body creates adrenaline and ephedrine. Adrenaline makes your blood flow faster and increases your cardiac rhythm making you feel stronger and faster. Ephedrine makes you feel happy, relaxed and very light headed. Having these substances in your organism more often results in a change of attitude. This is why you won’t see any grouchy swingers. They are always pleased. Of course there are some disadvantages to the swinger lifestyle. One of those disadvantages would be the ignorance of other people. As long as they are not part of this lifestyle and can’t understand it, there will always be those quick to judge it. So it’s not very easy to go around hearing this and that about swingers.

All swingers are married or at least committed to a relationship. If you are single you can’t be considered a swinger, just a bachelor. While one is young and not committed he can exchange partners as much as he likes without being judged. This lifestyle is meant for couples. The average age for swinging is 34-40 years because that’s when sex problems start to appear. Most swingers are very healthy people and take good care of their bodies. Around 80% of the swingers are non-smokers. They also take precautions to prevent sexually transmitted diseases. All swingers try to be in great shape and healthy because after all, this lifestyle is like dating. Usually people that enjoy this lifestyle are educated people, with medium or upper income. Also, Swingers don’t look to substitute their primary relationship, just enhance its pleasures.

This lifestyle is very exciting and full, so it shouldn’t be judged very harshly because it offers almost everything. In comparison to other types of lifestyles, swingers don’t harm or bother anyone. So if you feel the need to improve your sex and social life, then the swinger lifestyle might be the best choice for you.

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Every community has some specific terminology and keywords that help them relate to various activities or behavior. These terms give you a sleek preview into the lifestyle pattern followed by the respective community. Similarly, the swingers’ community also uses certain terminologies like

Vanilla- The term is used for a couple or individual who is not the part of swingers’ lifestyle.

Unicorn- The terminology is used for a single women who indulges into sexual acts with other swinger couples

Bi-Curious- This term is used for an individual who has a secret desire to experience sexual encounter with the same sex but has never got the opportunity to do the same.

Poser- Poser is an individual who claims to be a swinger but never indulges into sexual acts with others.

Soft Swap- This term is used for couples who indulge into sexual acts with other couples but have a thin line regarding their sexual pursuits. These couples aim at enjoying sexual play without getting involved into sexual intercourse. Moreover, there’s a healthy conversation between the swinging partners and each swinger respect the limits of his/her partner.

Full Swap- This term is used for swinger couples that are willing to indulge into sexual intercourse. Moreover, these couples are highly loyal in their relationships with their spouse as well as swinging partners.

Voyeur- This terminology is used for someone who loves to watch other people having group or bisexual sex. You can also find swingers that have one partner as a voyeur while another indulges into sexual play with other swingers couples or individuals.

Lifestyle- This term is also used as a synonym for swinging. A lifestyle aims at enjoying life pleasures without any restrictions and obligations.

Hence, the above swingers’ terminologies will clear your doubts about the swinging community that aims at enjoying sexual pleasures in a socially liberal environment.

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A group of swingers on a bed doesn’t guarantee good sex for everyone involved. It is difficult enough for two people in a couple relationship to get it right, so it should be pretty obvious that it will be more difficult when three or more people who usually know much less about each other get together. Yet somehow this bit of common sense logic is not often realised by swingers.

The same sort of mistakes that men make about what they perceive women want are probably made as often in swinger group situations as they are in couple intimacy. The women in swinger group activity usually add an extra assumption that is not possible during one to one sex. It is  the assumption that the men expect them to behave bisexually. Whilst being true that watching bisexual activity between women is a turn on for many men, it is not always the case and a performance of it should never be used as substitute for heterosexual activity.

Many of the things the men do, they do without thinking it through. In one to one sex a very common mistake is for men to act aggressively, believing that most women enjoy things a bit rough and that they see aggression as a desirable indication of true masculinity. Fortunately this is a less common mistake in swinger sex because of the presence of the other men. Nevertheless, it is a error that is sometimes made, particularly when a man is performing with his own partner and showing off his dominance over her to the other participants. Behaving in an overly aggressive way without knowing what the other participants want, is more likely to cause fear and dislike rather than admiration.

The opposite mistake is for the men to be overly passive, letting the women do all the work. This trap is actually easier to fall into in a swinger group situation than it is in one to one sex. The women themselves will often appear to encourage it by giving lots of oral sex to the men. Porn movies can probably be blamed for this tendency with their prolonged scenes of actresses performing fellacio.

Oral sex and other foreplay are as important in swinger sex as it is in couple sex but it still has to be mutual. Laying back and receiving has its place but it must be complimented by as much giving. Women no more desire to be used as masturbation vessels in a group situation than they do in one to one sex. The occasions that this might not be the case are mainly where a woman is only involved in swinging to please her partner. In such cases, masturbating the other guys might be perceived as an easy alternative to allowing greater intimacy with her own body.

The very nature of swinger encounters, prevents participants from overdoing experimentation. This is a common mistake by men in conventional sexual relationships and it can cause their partners embarrassment and make them feel very uncomfortable. People find it hard to express not liking something that their partner clearly enjoys because it can so easily be misconstrued as a rejection. In swinger sex, the fact that more people are involved and are less well known to each other, makes it much less likely that any one participant will push to experiment with something that is outside of the groups normal behaviour. The other side of this coin is of course a tendency for swinger sex to become somewhat boring and predictable. But then swinger relationships are by their very nature about moving on to new ones all the time!

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As a single male without a regular swinger partner, getting an invitation to a swinger party often requires a lot of effort. Many party hosts strictly limit places to couples and when you do find one that admits a few unaccompanied guys, you will probably need to compete with others for your invitation. This process may include sending your photograph and profile for consideration, so it can feel a bit like making a job application.

Assuming that you are successful and receive an invitation to attend a swingers’ party, the last thing you want after putting in all that effort is for the experience to be a disappointment. This can easily happen and when it does a lot of single guys blame the party for being a failure rather than questioning their own approach and attitude towards it.

The first thing you need to accept is that there will inevitably be many couples attending the party who are not the slightest bit interested in swinging with single males. The second thing is to understand that swingers are selective about who they swing with. Just because someone enjoys a variety of sexual partners, doesn’t mean that they will want sex with people they are not attracted to. In this respect swingers are no different to anybody else.

Keeping these two facts of life in mind, your approach to the party should otherwise be entirely positive. Unless you are very unlucky, it is most unlikely that you would have been invited if none of the other guests were interested in having some fun with single men. The secret of a successful evening is to identify who these guests are as quickly as possible and then find out which ones are likely to be attracted to you.

Start by simply approaching them and introducing yourself. Ask them general questions about how they are enjoying the party and what other parties they have attended. Are they are members of the same swinger or adult dating site or club as yourself? Don’t try to fudge things when they ask you similar questions. They are quite likely to include one about whether you have a partner and if is she at the party. Admit that you are single and be really positive about it, saying that you enjoy threesomes with swinger couples.

By this time, if you have been careful to note body language and other signals, you should have a pretty good idea as to whether there is any chemistry going on between you. If it seems unlikely, make your excuses and move on to another couple. If you feel encouraged that there is some mutual attraction, introduce an element of flirtation into the conversation. Once again, be watchful and notice the reaction. There should be some flirting being returned. If there is not, the chances are that you were mistaken in your earlier assessment and again need to move on.

Assuming all goes well, the final step is to do the bit that many people find the most difficult. A salesman would call it ‘closing the sale’ and without it all the foregoing chat is likely to have been wasted – unless you are lucky enough to have the couple do it for you! Whilst this can happen, there is every possibility that it won’t, so be bold and do the closing yourself. The great advantage of being in the sexually liberated environment of a swinger party is that you don’t need to beat around the push and you can simply say something like: “Fancy some fun now, or later on, perhaps?”

Attending a swingers’ party as an unaccompanied single male can be great fun if you approach it in the right way and adopt a positive mental attitude throughout.  Whilst a few swinger parties can be flops because of circumstances outside of your control, the majority are ones that offer the potential for everyone to have a good time. As a single male, attending such a party, remember that the ball is very much in your court.

About the Author

The authors are a liberated couple who promote uninhibited, liberated sexuality through articles about adult dating and swinger parties. Their swinger dating websites include Club Aphrodite which is one of the oldest adult dating and swinger parties clubs in the uk, having been founded in 1996

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One of the most common questions we get asked by couples is how swingers avoid becoming jealous when they see their partners having sex with someone else. The idea of the swinging lifestyle appeals to such couples and they are very tempted to experiment by attending a swinger party but then the moment of doubt arises.

There have been so many occasions where that moment of doubt turns into a moment of real jealousy that our response to the question has tended to toughen over the many years that we have been running a swinger club and organising swinger parties. If the doubt stems from a deep sense of distrust and possessiveness in either partner, they should probably give up the idea of swinging; at least until they have grown out of it or dealt with its underlying issues.
On the other hand the doubt might simply be just a perfectly natural manifestation of anxiety that goes hand in glove with all the other little worries that people experience when contemplating swinging for the first time. Under these circumstances, anxiety about how they will feel when the moment comes, can be a healthy preparation for what is actually a relationship strengthening experience.

The very personal nature of sex as something only shared with one partner at a time is very much ingrained into us by the conditioning of the monogamous society in which most of us have been brought up. It should be viewed with little wonder that some feelings of jealousy will remain during our first experiences of swinging. If the swinger couple share a healthy and fundamentally trusting relationship however, they will soon overcome these hang ups and actually be able to feel more trust than ever before.

This happens because of the openness that swinging presents. Whereas before a couple become swingers, they can only guess about how their respective partners would be when having sex with another person; afterwards the guess work is no longer necessary. This is a positive thing because it is the fear of the unknown that causes people to react in negative and often self destructive ways. Trust is developed by knowing your partner better, whilst guessing can often be used to avoid knowing them better because deep down one fears finding something they do not want to.

Many of the most experienced swinger couples we have met over the years have told us that their relationship has been strengthened in this way. They also report how the blurring of the distinction between love-making and sex has been cleared for them by their experiences. Time and time again, swingers leaving a swinger party have commented how much fun the party sex was but how their love-making would be enhanced as a result of it when they got home.

Overall then, doubts and fears concerning jealousy are fully justified and it needs to be admitted in swinger circles that there are people who will either never be able to handle jealousy in a partner swapping situation or who are unready to do so at the time they are considering engaging in the swinger lifestyle. For other couples, the concerns are quite healthy and whilst they may continue to experience some jealous feelings from time to time, they will not only learn how to handle them but they will experience a strengthening of trust in their relationship as a result of swinging.

About the Author

The authors are a liberated couple who promote uninhibited, liberated sexuality through articles about adult dating and swinger parties. Their swinger dating websites include Club Aphrodite which is one of the oldest adult dating and swinger parties clubs in the uk, having been founded in 1996

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We have been running swinger clubs and organising swinger parties for twelve years now and probably the most common question we get asked by newcomers contemplating attending their first swinger party is, ‘What do Swingers Wear?’

This question is usually based on the popular misconception that swinger parties are like fetish parties where everyone wears outrageous costumes to match a party theme or a personal fetish. Although it is true that a few swinger parties do have themes where some sort of fantasy dress code might operate, the vast majority do not.

Concerns about what people wear can also be based on an alternative misconception. This is that swingers take their clothes off the minute they arrive at a party and only put them back on when they are ready to leave. In reality most swingers are not naturists and have as much fear of public nudity as the average person does. The only parties where disrobing from the outset occurs is at parties held in naturist spas but even at these, guests are more likely to wrap themselves in towels than walk around in the buff.

In general, the male guests who attend swinger parties will be dressed in exactly the same way as they would for a friend’s birthday party or other similar party type event. In other words, they will wear smart casual clothes.

Although ladies are encouraged to consider wearing sexy lingerie, many do not and the safest bet for them is take something to change into when they feel confident to do so. To illustrate how normal the female dress code at a typical party can be, we often point out that what some women wear at a night club is often more skimpy or sexually provocative than standard swinger party apparel.

Apart from the special themed swinger parties and parties held in naturist spas, the only other type of swinger party event that presents a special case with regards to what to wear, are parties that have a formal dress code. These are very few and far between and tend to be organised by groups of swingers who operate in an exclusive membership circle of select friends. If you do get the chance to attend such a party, the dress code will be clearly spelt out on your invitation. A Black Tie invitation requires men to wear tuxedos and women to wear cocktail dresses or dressy evening separates.  One exclusive swinger dinner party group has a black tie dress code for males and lingerie or nudity for females. Quite a theme!

But the majority of swinger parties are not like that and the only really essential dress requirement is that you feel comfortable in whatever you decide to wear. In a nutshell attending a swinger party isn’t really that much different to attending most other types of party.

About the Author

The authors are a liberated couple who promote uninhibited, liberated sexuality through articles about adult dating and swinger parties. Their swinger dating websites include Club Aphrodite which is one of the oldest adult dating and swinger parties clubs in the uk, having been founded in 1996

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There are no formal rules at swingers party or events but basic manners can take you a long way and make you more popular with other swingers

A Swingers party is a happening where adult couples and selected singles meet for an evening of free sex in a safe and friendly environment. This can take place at a private residence or at an actual swingers club where a relaxed atmosphere is created with candles, music, finger food and drinks.

You have to be over 18 in the UK if you want to attend a swinger party. Generally you won’t find anyone younger than 25 at a swapping party. Apart from the age factor a swingers party is really open to anybody. There are a lot of interracial swingers these days so you can expect to find people from many different races at sex parties.

The important thing to remember when you are going to a swingers event is that you are the guest and should behave like the guest. Couples have been ignored by other members for misbehaving at swingers parties.

It’s always important to greet your host and hostess when you arrive at a swingers party and to thank them afterwards. There will be the foyer where the host or hostess will great the guests and encourage them to grab a glass of champagne and mingle with the other guests. This is also the place where new members will get introduced to other couples. If they like you then the chances of them inviting you to other parties are really good. Word of mouth is also huge in the swingers community and you will get a reputation as a likeable swinger.

Be polite to the other guests of the party or event. If they invite you for a threesome or a gang-bang that you don’t want to partake in then just gently say no thanks. Don’t insult them and never try to force yourself on other adults who don’t want you. Remember that no always means no. If you are in a situation where you are telling another member no and they don’t want to back off then go tell your hostess. It is their responsibility to keep all the guests in order and make sure that everyone is having fun.

There isn’t a lot of small talk going on at a swinger party, except for in the foyer. Most adults attend swapping parties to get free sex and then they leave. So don’t feel offended if the couple you just had sex with doesn’t invite you over for tea.

About the Author

Mids Swinger is first and foremost a swinger and has been for many years. Recently having had enough of these so called swingers websites that promise ‘free access’ but don’t actually deliver, he decided to become a webmaster and run his own UK swingers site. The idea was to create a swinging site that not only looked great but also offered great features and that anyone could join and use straight away to contact other swingers for free. Not only will you find thousands of ads from local swingers but you will also find that the site is a complete resource for swingers, dogging, public sex, video chat rooms, group sex, public sex, adult sex forums, sex blogs and much more.

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